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PLEASE NOTE 1) The TMGAIHAA book is NOT simply a reprint of this webpage or the Guardian columns. The TMGAIHAA book is a comic novel that was 'inspired' by this webpage's theme. 2) My novels have been translated into various languages, from Japanese to Hebrew - even into German - but you'll have to find those translations yourself, OK?Much, I like to think, the way Alfred Hitchcock's fictional movie was inspired by multiple real life brutal murders in Wisconsin. Putting links to every novel in every language pretty much doubles the size of this page and, frankly, I suspect that the size of this page has damn near killed you already.Some will tell you that it’s all about being unreactive and proving you don’t need or care about her as much as she needs or cares about you.Some will tell you that it’s about staring down or squeezing out the other men around the woman you’re interested in. The reason why it’s become accepted that women like assholes is due to a logical fallacy known as the defective induction.Meanwhile, other men will tell you over and over again that you need to be the Alpha Male, that you need to be dominant and prove you’re her social superior. They’re staring at you from the covers of the gossip magazines and the front pages of TMZ with the latest arm candy.
And of course, the guy who’s busily banging away at the girl you like – you know, the one who seems to be the source of all of that drama she keeps coming to you with, the one who couldn’t an asshole.Betas who piss off the Alpha do so at their own risk.I’m sure you can imagine how people might see this reflected in humans. So, if Nice Guys are Betas and assholes are Alphas, then it makes sense to try to emulate that behavior, right?lack of utter brokenness that I miss, that I know I can never regain with my husband, and that makes me so sad. I have gained a new respect for him because of these years of hard work.
2 View All Next »It’s been about six months or so since I addressed that perennial bugbear of nerd dating, the Nice Guy, and after some of the comments I’ve seen, on the blog and elsewhere, it seems like as good a time as any to revisit the topic.When you take a bunch of people with a shaky grasp on evolutionary psychology who try to apply the concept of Alpha onto the convoluted morass that is human sexuality and sell it as advice, you end up with the vague idea that being “alpha” means being “dominant” or “socially superior”.